128 - Jerk Appeal

So over the last three or four months I've been playing a bit of an experiment with that girl sailor spoon. It's not something I would do on anyone but the lowest of the low type of person. I've been acting like a complete jerk to her. I've been putting her down, talking down to her and giving her little bits of attention here and there. Just enough for her to keep calling me back and wanting more. What I've learned is that a man has to be hurt really bad by women to become a jerk. Some Jerks have tons of self esteem because they don't care about women's feelings because women didn't care about theirs at some point and hurt their feelings pretty badly. Many jerks look down upon women. And the men that put women on a pedestal are the ones women don't want. It's almost like most women don't want respect. It's almost like they enjoy being belittled and talked down to. I went from being a needy guy to one that was in anger and shock after taking the red pill. Then I turned out into a rational man studying male female relationships in some kind of clinical way. Now I feel like a tinkering social scientist and to be honest a bit of a jerk to people I have no respect for. Women always complain when a guy doesn't call. And I don't call Sailor Spoon, she calls me. And now I think the reason women hate it when guys they want something from don't call them is because firstly it lowers their self esteem and it also makes them feel inadequate in some way as well as needy. Needless to say she's calling me three to four times a day and when she calls half the time I don't pick up and the other half I do and say things like, oh it's you, what do you want? And she gets pissed off, huffs and puffs and raises her tone of voice and says why are you talking to me like this? At that point I say well if you're going to raise your voice at me like this and disrespect me I'm going to have to put down the phone. I hang up and ten minutes later she's calling me asking when I'm coming over. The less I care about her the more she cares about me. She sounds like someone that was neglected as a child and was looking for attention. She's also a complete narcissist. You can't criticize her about anything, even if it's constructive criticism without her blowing up. She came over to my place only once, but she doesn't know the address and she's been wanting to come back after seeing how I live. She's been asking me how to take the bus over here and I told her I'd come over to her place but I don't want her over here. The more I tell her no and the more I treat her poorly the more she seems interested in me. Years ago I would have loved to be in this situation. Now that I know what's going on and how it all works it's boring. I'm adding a link to an article called The Jerk Appeal in the description below. This article helped me to understand what's been going on with myself. Here is a line from that article: "in order for a man to develop a backbone and become more of a bad boy, in the hopes of attracting more women, he does have to be badly hurt once." I completely understand this now. As far as I can tell many jerks have already taken the red pill subconsciously and push women away emotionally and physically so they don't get hurt again. This comes across as self-confidence to women or a man in need of fixing. It seems women have a hard time figuring out if a man is either being emotionally distant or he is being self confident. The two modes of male thinking and feeling seem to be become difficult for many women to distinguish. And if it's a combination of both factors look out. I don't know why women seem to have trouble distinguishing between the two? Someone please enlighten me.The Jerk Appealhttp://ca.askmen.com/dating/heidi/hei...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy