144 - Who Pays for Dinner?

The title for this video obviously gives away the topic. Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine and he just started dating someone and told me that he was setting aside five hundred dollars a month so that he could pay for dates with a girl he started dating a few weeks ago. That's just less then half of his rent money and he said that money was set aside for two or three dates a week with him spending a modest forty to fifty dollars for each date. It wouldbe mostly average quality restaurants he was planning on taking her to as well as movies. And he would pay for the tickets and popcorn. He just shrugged his shoulders and said that's just the way it is. I interrupted and said that doesn't have to be the way it is. I never spent that much money dating per month in the past. And my partners didn't leave me for being cheap if I wanted to act that way. I hardly spent any money. For me money was to be saved and used on big trips and to purchase things that gain value over time or pay for themselves. Not things that depreciate in value. I also told him he could get two or three decent call girls a month for that price and have the guarantee of sex. I told him that if he was going to pay that kind of money to take women out on dates that he was failing the shit test women were putting him through. Men think that women expect men to pay for dinner, pick them up and drop them off after the date. I'm wouldn't be shy to leave a woman at the subway station and let her find her own way home, even if it's the middle of the night. In the past women would complain about why I wasn't giving them a ride home or paying for a cab to take them home. But guess what? I would always go out with them after that. If a woman is attracted to you and wants to sleep with you she will often times complain that you're not treating her like a princess. And I've had other friends confirm this behavior. And I think it has to do with being shit tested. And like any other shit test it never ends. And the moment you spend tons of money for a couples dinner the woman loses respect for you. And if you don't she nags at you. It's a catch 22 or Kobayashi Maru Test. There is no way to win the a no win scenario. Just ask Captain Kirk. The only way he won the no-win scenario in his days in Star Trek was to reprogram the computer. So in essence he cheated on the test. With female biology you can't cheat unless like I've said in the past you rewire women's DNA. In the future if by some miracle we can rework our genetic makeup or rewire our minds then it might be possible. But the way things stand today the only way to win a no win scenario with women is not to the play the game and go your own way.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy