207 - Red Pill Rehab

"Hi Sandman, maybe you can discuss men who got married and then later discovered MGTOW and the realization it brings with recognizing the thought processes of our wives (their arguing techniques, how they react when you don't care if they hold out on sex, how to delay having kids with them to prevent child support if divorce is inevitable). Discuss different techniques for these people to safeguard their resources and how to be prepared for a divorce if it happens. How to help instill good values to your kids if you happen to have them and keep the wife's values, school's, society's from corrupting their view of the world." Thanks for your question Chris. A married man realizing female nature after the fact is obviously stuck between a rock and a hard place. He now fully realizes that his wife rules over him and yet he's expected tocontinue being a good blue pill mangina. Society already has a name for men that have swallowed the red pill in the middle of a marriage. These are men considered to be in the midst of a mid life crisis. These are men considered too selfish and self absorbed to be making rational choices. Yet all they want to do is have a little bit of fun before they die. To the outside world a typical blue pill man mid-life crisis and a man swallowing the red pill look very similar to wives and mothers. They see a man going through emotional and behavioural changes and they think that he's going through a mid life crisis. But going your own way has far deeper implications then buying a new car and donning a macho attitude. It means a fundamental change in core values and most women will not understand this change in behaviour. And they have the one size fits all approach of the mid life crisis. I know at least a half a dozen people that watch my videos and they share them with their wives. And in many cases their wives hate them for it. And subsequently hate me I suppose. But I don't care about what some married woman has to say to me. If my content can clue in a married man about the unperceived abuse and covert manipulation he gets from his wife then I feel like I'm helping him. I think the first thing we need to define are the levels of a red pill men in a marriage. Like you said there are men without children, men that have their assets tied up into the relationship so if they left they would have to shell out a lot of money for a divorce. And then you have the married men with children. The first level is the relatively newly married man. He becomes aware of the red pill but he's already gone through the expensive wedding and honeymoon. His wife is probably structuring his life. Put all of his stuff in the garage or the basement. He sees that when children arrive it's game over. We would have continued down that path if he was still a blue pill man. But now he is self-aware. He sees love and marriage as a sham and reaches a critical point in his life.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy