212 - Dating a Criminal

Hello Sandman, I'm just coming to you because my brother has just made the worst decision of his life 4 days ago. I think that if you make a video about it, it will help prevent other guys from making the same mistakes as my brother. My brother is currently 33 years old. About ten years ago, he had gotten engaged to a girl who was 5 to 6 years younger than him. They had known each other for a few years. While they were engaged, she had disappeared for a while. She reappeared 4 months after her disappearance and claimed that she was pregnant by another man, but she still wanted to be with my brother. My brother then broke up with her and she ended up marrying the guy who got her pregnant. The guy she married was very abusive, so she ran back to my brother. She kept going back and forth between my brother and her husband. She also had 4 more kids (including a set of twin boys) in the process. None of her kids belong to my brother. Also during this process, she had repeatedly been in and out of prison and temporarily addicted to heroin. Her husband also spent some time in jail. The state removed 3 out of 5 of her kids from her custody because of her detrimental lifestyle. It even got to the point to where my brother said he'd never get with her again. He said that about 3 years ago. A few months ago, my brother bought his own apartment. Without telling anyone, he allowed that ex-fiance of his and two of her children to move in with him for free. My sister had found out by accident. Four days ago, my brother made it official that he and the girl are now in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, even though the girl is STILL married! The only reason she's still married is because neither she nor her husband can afford the divorce fees. She also doesn't have a job mainly because no one wants to hire her because of her criminal record. My brother knows that no one in our family approves of this girl, but he's ignoring us. He lives 4 hours away from us, so we're unable to intervene in his life. In the past 2 years, I've shown him videos about MGTOW and I've shown him videos from Tom Leykis. He seemed to understand and agree with all of it, so this recent decision of his has totally caught me off guard. The only good thing I can now say about my brother is that he is no longer interested in getting married because he understands that marriage has no benefit for a man in the United States and a few other countries. All I hope is that he won't allow that girl to talk him into marrying her. My family is now speculating that the girl intentionally moved in with him so she could try to get pregnant by him and have his baby because she knows that a child would bond them together for life. I honestly don't know what to do :( What do you think about all of this?" Well, Luke thanks for the question. I will do my best to answer your question but I've never known anyone that has been in anything as remotely insane asthis. This woman has no responsibility for her own children, her husband, that she can't even afford to divorce nor herself.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy