231 - Oneitis

"Hey Sandman, I have a YouTube video request. I'm not a MGTOW myself, though since discovering the manosphere I certainly feel like I am one. At first, out of necessity, then out of spite, and now for my own sake. I'm sure you're aware of something in the seduction community known as "oneitis." In order to be a true MGTOW, one must conquer a primal directive, oneitis being the main manifestation of such a thing. What are your personal experiences with oneitis and what advice or insight can you give to guys struggling with oneitis or as I call it "pussysuffering"? Well thanks for your question Volodymyr. Withregards to my own experience with "oneitis" this happened to me for the first time in my life when I was in the tenth grade in high school. I was obsessed with a girl for about six months and I would say that this was my first young love. And after this I never got hung up on a woman until my first real adult love in my mid-twenties but even then I got through the emotional pain relatively quickly after that relationship. But when I was in high school I had both male and female friends that were obsessed with one person for one, two or even three years between the ages of fourteen and eighteen. And the friends that I still know from that time period are still dealing with the consequences of their obsession with one person. The time I spent dating many different girls in high school was usually when my male friends spent obsessing over one woman that wouldn't give them the time of day. And she was probably getting off on it knowing that she had their attention for many months or years. I found that many women like knowing someone cares for them and wants them and it boosts their ego. So oftentimes they don't have the heart to tell the poor schmuck that they aren't interested and let him go on his merry or non merry way.Nine Steps to Avoid neediness and oneitishttp://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/0...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy