71 - Scared of Love

One of my friends is dating and he's been noticing something really unusual lately. He was in a long term relationship from the age of twenty six to thirty two and says that his ex was receptive to the love and affection that he gave her. After that relationship he took a break for six months and is now dating women in their mid to late twenties and it seems that many women are afraid of love. They are afraid of men hugging them and showing them affection. They somehow think that it's wrong for men to do that. When he embraces her she don't seem to know how to react to it. That makes her uncomfortable, but sex doesn't. He says that a girl he's seeing now has no problem having sex almost each and every single day but when it comes to him trying to show her affection she does everything she can to detach from him. And this is the third girl in the last year that's been like this. So I spoke to a few other guys and they are saying the same thing. They think it has something to do with the behavior of guys younger then us. Guys in their twenties. Apparently more guys are being direct about what they want. They are approaching ten or twenty girls and telling them they want no strings attached sex and even if they get one or two out of the twenty saying yes then they win. They get to have sex and the girl gets male attention. But if a woman does it enough times then she associates male attention with sex and nothing else. So when she meets a guy that is both sexual and emotional it makes her uncomfortable because she has been conditioned to see men as sexual creatures and not emotional creatures. I spoke about the fact that women don't love men the same way that men love women in my second video on this channel. And apparently loving a woman doesn't matter anymore. Even if a man loves women these days are increasingly unable to recognize loving behaviors or those types of behaviors are making some women increasingly uncomfortable around men. So if you're a man without love in his heart women find you more attractive.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy