82 - Advice for MGTOW

Dean wrote to me with a lot of personal issues he wants help with. I'm paraphrasing what he has to say: "Hi Sandman my name is Dean, I'd like to tell you a bit of a story about myself and my background. One thing I want to point out though is how women in America & Canada from what you say seem to be more stubborn and self-obsessed than here in Australia. Perhaps that is something you can look into though I don't know how you would go about that and I have limited experience with women so I can't help you too much there. My reason for making the leap to writing to you came from your video "Suicide as Revenge -- MGTOW" but I'll get into those details a bit later. I'd like to say how, 'much like my recent acceptance of Atheism' the MGTOW ideas have opened my eyes up on having more critical thinking skills. I used to be extremely gullible and naïve. My Mormon upbringing and dreaming of "love at first sight" was just horrible in helping me to develop the ability to think and assess a situation by myself. I was even scared to approach someone at a counter to order food. With my attempts at online dating though oasisactive.com I am also wary of women I meet on there and always look out for the ways of deception that is the female mind. I'm not a particularly attractive person, probably a 3-4/10 and that gives me a very different approach to a lot of things than you however I do have an athletic body and like to maintain that. It's extremely hard to get any attention let alone keep it. As much as I would like to I don't get to play the games that you talk about with women. If you haven't figured it out by now I'm a bit of a purple pill'er. I find it hard to be able to avoid being wanted or loved by someone, yet I am now aware of the games and strategies that women use. Back to the online dating I have often found women just stop contact after meeting once. Which in all honesty, if there not interested that's fine, but for Christ sake I wish they would just say how they feel and not just disappear like I'm an inanimate object with no feelings. Is it really hard to just say "I'm not interested"? I also seem to often get the fat ones. I'm happy to accept someone who is at my level of attractiveness but legs like a F-ing tree trunk and they say "a little overweight" I hate that lying bullshit." Well thanks for your comments Dean I know it's only part of what you have to say but I'm going to tackle it before I move on to the rest of your comments.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy