169: Bottles and Baskets: How to Feel Better about Your Motherhood

Your motherhood probably looks completely different than mine. But I bet we have one thing in common if you're a mother too. I bet you have days where you feel really down in the dumps about how good of a mother you are, or you FEEL you are, that day. It happens to me, and I bet it happens to you. So today I'm sharing my go-to talk when the cloud of comparison starts to creep into my calling as a mother. Whenever I feel like I'm not measuring up to whatever standard I think others may have for me as a mother, whenever I catch myself thinking I'm not doing a good job because someone's doing it better, these are the things I do to help get my mindset back on track and my vision clear and really see motherhood the way I believe God would have me see.   Today’s episode is sponsored by Aura Frames. An Aura frame brings all your photos and videos together in one gorgeous high resolution display. Preload any frame with meaningful memories and a special message that will appear as soon as it’s set-up. Invite the whole family to add to the frame and feel close from anywhere. Go to auraframes.com and use code MINTARROW to get up to $40 off of purchase while supplies last. Time Stamps: [01:00] - Today’s episode is about appreciating motherhood. [04:45] - Corrine shares this analogy that shows why motherhood comes in different forms. [07:42] - Corrine and Neil discuss how the motherhood of their upbringing may be different. [09:23] - You don’t need to compare your motherhood to other mothers. Do this instead. [11:54] - Corrine reveals how she realized that her pride held her back from following her version of motherhood. [14:21] - You deliver motherhood in a way that preserves the fruits of your efforts best. [16:56] - Everyone’s family life is going to be different, but Heavenly Father knows exactly what the needs of the family are. [19:22] - Bring the fruits of the spirit into your home. [21:43] - Corrine reminisces on the tougher parts of motherhood. For her, it was the toddler phase. [23:54] - Learn throughout every phase of motherhood. [25:59] - Corrine and Neil assure everyone that parenthood isn’t always great, but you can usually laugh at it later. [28:27] - Corrine talks about learning to be more attentive to the path of her own motherhood. [31:01] - Don’t get obsessive about motherhood. You’re doing better than you think. [33:58] - Give yourself grace as a mother. [35:46] - Uplift fellow mothers.   Supporting Resources: “Baskets and Bottles” Talk by Chieko N. Okazaki “Beware of Pride” Talk by Ezra Taft Benson “Behold Thy Mother” Jeffrey R. Holland