Talking About the Birds and The Bees to Keep Kids Safe in an Online World

When it comes to "the talk," it can be downright anxiety provoking for parents as they consider what to say and how to say it. Many parents think of the "the talk" as a one time conversation to have when your child is approaching an age when they might be thinking about having sex. But, what if talking the birds and the bees is really supposed to be years of honest conversation that culminates in a child who has all of the details about sex, relationships, and consent long before they are ready to consider having sex?   Tune in to hear Amy Lang, sexual health educator, discuss how and when to start the birds and the bees conversation (it's earlier than you might think), how to avoid TMI (too much information), and simple things that we can do to keep our children safe. With more than 25 years of experience teaching parents how to talk to their children about sex, Lang knows just what to say and how to say it!   As we navigate this often sexually-saturated online world, the task of protecting our children can feel daunting. Lang has tips for this too. She explores ways to address the unfortunate times when our children see too much online, offers suggestions for including our values in the conversation, and shares thought-provoking questions that will help you find your way in the sometimes awkward, yet very important task of educating your kids about sex. Join Marti & Erin in this compelling interview with a leading expert on the Birds and the Bees.     HAVE YOU STARTED TALKING ABOUT THE BIRDS AND THE BEES?   What do you hope for your kids as they grow and develop? What values do you want to share with your children when it comes to sexual health and relationships? In what ways are you on track for your children to know all the details by 10-11? And in what ways do you need to pick up the pace in your conversations on the birds and the bees?   WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ADOPTION AND NEFERTITI AUSTIN? ❉ BIRDS AND BEES AND KIDS. Check out Amy Lang's website here for more information on the birds and the bees. Get quick tips, connect with her workshops, listen to her podcast, and learn how you can get one-to-one consultations.   ❉ TEACHING OUR CHILDREN ABOUT SEX, LOVE AND EQUALITY. Author Bonnie Rough discovered some surprising lessons about sex education while living in the Netherlands when her children were very young.  Ultimately, she learned this is about much more than sex; it is about healthy relationships, grounded in love, respect and equality. Check out this episode to learn more.   ❉ TALKING WITH CHILDREN ABOUT SEX: KEYS TO SEXUAL HEALTH AND SAFETY. Dr. Rosenzweig makes a strong case for arming our children with detailed, accurate information about the natural sexual responses humans experience, which in turn will empower our children to make healthy, safe choices now and later. Learn more in this episode of Mom Enough.