Why You Keep Dating The Wrong Guy And What To Do About It

In this week's episode, Eli tackles the reasons why many people keep dating the same toxic partners and emphasizes the importance of self-accountability and personal growth in the dating process. He urges listeners to examine their patterns and the love they're used to versus the love they truly need, stressing the necessity of building a fulfilling life outside of relationships. Eli discusses how understanding one's non-negotiables and embracing self-love can lead to healthier dating experiences, while also encouraging listeners to redefine their perception of safety and excitement in relationships. He wraps up by offering tools and insights to help listeners break free from negative dating cycles and find partners that align with their true selves.   This week Eli sits down with Dr. Sarah Hensley, a social psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss attachment styles and how they influence dating dynamics. Dr. Hensley shares   Want To Work With Eli Through His Coaching Courses, 1:1 Calls And More? Click Here: https://stan.store/elivazquez   Follow Eli And Watch Full Eps And Clips Of The Pod: https://www.tiktok.com/@itselivazquez https://instagram.com/itselivazquez https://www.instagram.com/theselfhypepodcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@theselfhypepodcast     Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/YKH4NDPTvG8   00:00 Cold Open00:33 Welcome to the Self Hype Podcast00:44 Why We Keep Finding the Same Type of Partner02:37 The Importance of Self-Accountability05:26 Creating a Fulfilling Life Beyond Dating08:28 Defining Your Path and Finding the Right Partner16:26 Understanding the Love You're Used To vs. The Love You Need22:11 The Allure of the Flashy Guy22:54 Finding Value in Safety24:40 Learning from Failed Relationships26:41 Setting Non-Negotiables28:29 Navigating Awkward Dates30:57 Intentional Communication33:36 Self-Love and Accountability39:54 The Ancestral Perspective41:51 Embracing the Dating Journey43:18 Conclusion and Next Steps     This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life. https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle   #theselfhypepodcast #selfhype #podshuttle #chobostudios #toxicrelationships