148: Applying the Love Success Framework as a High Achieving Woman with Sami Wunder

In this week’s episode of the Seven Figure Consultant Podcast, I’m excited to welcome Sami Wunder to the show. Sami is the creator of the Love Success Framework, and her business has helped hundreds of women find lasting relationships. In this episode, Sami and I discuss the six steps a high-achieving woman needs to take to find her love relationship. But unfortunately, some women often sabotage their dating experiences, and we will hear why that happens. I can’t wait for you to listen to this episode of the Seven Figure Consultant Podcast.  In this episode: [01:00] Sami Wunder shares her childhood, her academic achievements, her heartbreaks in romance and what she did to turn it around and start her company. [08:33] Jessica reflects on her dating and ultimate meeting with her husband.  [11:45] Sami reveals that it’s too easy to blame your partner for the failure in the relationship and not do a self-evaluation.  [15:53] Social media and generic thinking say to ‘be yourself.’ Sami tells why that doesn’t work and describes a healthy, empowered self.  [21:19] Sami outlines four steps to be taken in self-evaluation and awareness and how to implement these steps.  [31:00] How to compare the business acumen of ‘The More Leads you Have, the Better your Conversion Rate’ to dating.  [34:34] Steps five and six define masculine and feminine energy and the acceptance that men and women see commitment differently.  [44:00] Sami’s complimentary training program.   Key Takeaways:  Some of the same qualities that make a woman successful in business may cause her to fail in a love relationship.  Getting a clean mindset and knowing who you are and your worth is the way to start a relationship. Rotational dating is the best way to find the right man for you, and you’re not wasting time.   Quotes:  “The easiest thing for high achievers to do is to blame their success and brain for not having love.  I used to do the same whenever things would not work out with a man; it was because he was intimidated by my success, and I was too much. This is a harmful and toxic belief because it becomes the umbrella explanation for why your love life is not working out.” - Sami Wunder “Once you believe that your success and your brain are a problem, you do not have the capacity to go deeper into self-questioning and self-inquiry and see what is truly going on there that is preventing that love and intimacy from entering your life.” - Sami Wunder Guest Bio:  Sami Wunder is a leading international relationship and dating coach who specializes in working with ambitious, high-achieving women, helping them attract lasting romantic love. As the CEO of a thriving 7-figure business, Sami currently serves a highly engaged, global clientele of over 100K followers across 55 countries. Her clients range from a Hollywood celebrity to UK TV stars to CEOs, bankers, lawyers, doctors, renowned authors, leading entrepreneurs, and more. To date, Sami Wunder’s company has served thousands of clients and recorded over 450 client engagements and hundreds of committed relationships since 2016. She’s a leading authority when it comes to dating and relationships and is a sought-after expert in the media, appearing regularly in Business Insider, Forbes, Glamour, the Daily Mail, The Metro, Cosmopolitan, and many more. Useful Links Get in touch with Jessica to discuss your consulting business Jessica’s LinkedIn Grab Sami's free training & cheatsheet: ‘Lean In At Work, Lean Back In Love - High Achieving Women's Secrets To Romantic Success’ Sami Wunder Website Sami Wunder LinkedIn