Elsa is Autistic (Episode 63)

Dr. Angela Lauria and Matt Lowry, LPP, discuss authentic autistic representation in the character of Elsa from Frozen. They discuss masking, unmasking, ABA, sensory differences, autistic lineage, autistic women, and the heroes journey we all must take if we want to “Let it Go” and adventure “Into the Unknown.” Beyond that, this week’s quotes speak for themselves:The wind is howling like this swirling storm insideCouldn't keep it in, heaven knows I triedDon't let them in, don't let them seeBe the good girl you always have to beConceal, don't feel, don't let them knowWell, now they knowLet it go, let it goCan't hold it back anymoreLet it go, let it go—“Let it Go”“They were trying to conceal her because they didn't want the kingdom to know that she had powers. They were trying to make her fit in. To hide, to conceal, to fix. And it's very much ABA vibes.” —Matt“One of the biggest dangers of coming out (as autistic) is being vulnerable and losing your support system…and losing the people that you once thought liked you but just like the mask that you wore. So (unmasking) takes a lot of guts.” —Matt“And this is a big part about Frozen 2 because when we find ourselves, that can be an incredibly lonely process. Because, we have to we have to start shedding pieces of ourselves, one piece at a time to try to figure out—to get to the core of who we really are.” —Matt“You kind of have to settle into who you actually are instead of who you've been pretending to be.” —Angela“That does not happen the day the doctor says, or doesn't say, ‘You're autistic.’ Nothing magical happens that day. The magic is like the years and years of work and grief and processing and trying things, all the things you would have been doing.” —Angela“There's often, like, this unresolved resentment because when you finally figure out who you are you're like, holy s**t, why didn't anyone (A) ever tell me (B) love me for who I really was or (C) tell me that I didn't have to hide myself?” —MattDo you relate to Elsa and the songs from Frozen? Tell us in the comments and use #AutisticCultureCatch to share your answer on your social media and connect with other listeners!Show notes and resources:Wiki Fandom: ElsaWikipedia: Frozen (2013 film) Blog: “Conceal, don’t feel”: The case for autistic ElsaArticle: ‘Frozen’ offers glimpse of autism in girlsBlog: 19 Reasons Why I Am Convinced Elsa Is AutisticArticle: Kristen Bell recalls Dax Shepard confronting her about her mental health Article: Kristen Bell Is Not Afraid To Share That She Takes Medication for Her Mental HealthArticle: Seeking Disney’s first disabled princessVideo: Story Of Frozen, The Making Of A Disney Animated Classic (2014) Article: 10 Things You May Not Know About Idina Menzel—The Wicked Movie and MoreYouTube: Hygge (From "Frozen: The Broadway Musical"/Audio Only) Presentation: Is it Weird that I’m Moving to the UK?Other episodes to check out if you liked this one:Episode 07: Apple is Autistic  Episode 09: Fairy Tales are Autistic Episode 26 - Disney is AutisticEpisode 34: Beauty and the Beast is AutisticEpisode 58: The Good Place is AutisticReady for a paradigm shift that empowers Autistics? Help spread the news!Check us out on InstagramFind us on Apple podcasts and SpotifyLearn more about Matt at Matt Lowry, LPPMatt’s social media: Autistic Connections Facebook GroupLearn more about Angela at AngelaLauria.com and Difference PressAngela’s social media: Twitter and TikTokTACP’s Autism-affirming TeePublic merch shop This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com/subscribe