Learning to let all things be as they are and deal with them on that basis with Shane Kohler

In this episode, we explore the simple yet profound principle of becoming really clear about the reality of a situation and then dealing with it on that basis only, rather than allowing our future projections or fantasies to color the picture.  We also explore how to create clarity in the early stages of dating when you don't know where you stand and how to prevent our past trauma from limiting our future.