Episode 42: We're Poly, By Golly!

Ah, the wonderful and complex world of non-monogamy! This week, we get nerdy about polyamory. Find out how we realized monogamy didn't work for us, which resources taught us about poly, and what the hell we do with all our feeeeelingz. Polynormativity | Choosing Monogamy | Proto-Kate | Solo Poly | Monogamous Exes | Unnatural Rules | Labels | Freedom | Disclosure | Jealousy | [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/jealousy/) | One-Penis Policy | [Femme Competition](http://web.archive.org/web/20160203001319/https://clementinemorrigan.com/2015/05/19/the-cuteness-matrix-jealousy-polyamory-femininity/) | Orientation vs. Behavior | Dashboard Light | Feeling Feels | Distractions | Scheduling | Pressure | Communication | [Life on the Swingset](https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast/swingset/) | [Opening Up](https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1499138400&sr=8-1&keywords=opening+up) | [More Than Two](https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=pd_sim_14_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0991399706&pd_rd_r=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ&pd_rd_w=e0Bwj&pd_rd_wg=6XitB&psc=1&refRID=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ) | Jealous Listener | Compersion