Don’t Play Hard to Get. Be Challenging to Have.

In this episode, we’re diving into the popular “black cat” theories that teach women to manipulate, lie, and play games to seem unattainable – and why these tactics don’t work with secure masculine men. Instead, I’ll show you what actually works: becoming a woman who challenges a man to have her through self-respect, high standards, and emotional connection. We’ll break down why operating from fear and control puts you in a defensive and offensive position, making a man see you as a co...